This was posted almost two months ago on mc sis section, but I was reading it again today.. lol anyway Im posting it with me and yassi's comments after it..
THE POWER OF THREE LITTLE WORDS
Some of the most significant messages people deliver to one anotheroften come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed, thosestatements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled.
The following three word phrases can enrich every relationship:
I'LL BE THERE - Being there for another person is the greatest gift wecan give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. 'Being there' is at the very, very core of civility.
I MISS YOU - Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
I RESPECT YOU - Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. It is a powerful way toaffirm the importance of a relationship.
MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT - This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side of "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting "maybe I'm wrong."
PLEASE FORGIVE ME - Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up to he has been in the wrong, which is by saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
I THANK YOU - Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitudeof gratitude.
COUNT ON ME - "A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.""Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is theemotional glue that bonds people. Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, agood friend is there, indicating "you can count on me."
LET ME HELP - The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. Whenthey spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.
I UNDERSTAND YOU - People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.
GO FOR IT - Some of your friends may be non-conformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support them in pursuing their interests.Rather than urging your loved ones to conform, encourage theiruniqueness - everyone has dreams that no one else has.
I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to bereserved for those who are special; that is I LOVE YOU.
Yassi:-
” I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to bereserved for those who are special; that is I LOVE YOU. ”
UMM SUHAYB !!!!
does this sound familiar shotu meyeh?
' how many times a person may long to hear those 3 words'
' I.....Love.....You? These three?'
'na'aam maa shallah they suit you'
'as the Prophet (SAW) did say when u love a person hurry in letting them know'
'I feel like crying.'
yeh anywayz... i love all u sisters for the pleasre of Allah subhana wa taala.... especially you meyeh muwah intee u are my fresh air when i open the window to let the smoke out looool ay ay aymay Allah grant all u sisters jannat al firdous ameen
Me:-
YASSMEANA YOU GOT ME TO CRY
Ya Allah.. jazakumAllah khair.. that was sweet.. but what yassi posted was even sweeter
Yassi:-
meyeh... people dont live like memoriez do... i treasure u habeebtee i luff you
Me:-
na'am memories dont live like people do.. wallah cherish every memory couse sooner or later people move outa your life and only memories are left... yassmeana I love you too... Jazakillah khair for always being there.. wallah I dunnu what id do without you..
Yassi:-
aywa me either, intee u keep me strong and sane... you are a diamond amongst all the cubic zirconia ana bdee hold on tight to you
and maybe we should stop responding back n forth b4 people get mad...
'im all about the love deep down' lol
Me:-
lol ya mumkin we finish it on msn.... and PLEASE stop with the quotes lol ya Allah ... ah whatever ill talk on msn..
lol, ya this is one of the few replying back and forths that me and yassi and Umm Qaylah did without getting it deleted and locked..
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As-Salaamu 'Alaikum Wa Rahmatullaahi Wa Barakatuh,
SubHan-Allaah...I loved that thread on MC. You know, I went and found the thread on MC, brought back some memories. I miss yassi even though we didnt speak much.
I saw your post on MC about Rosebude Tear and others trying to be like us...lol SubHan-Allaah, when I didnt think you were serious when u wrote about it on my chatterbox. They actually closed that thread now. lol.. Khair AlHumdu-Lillaah.
I am about to head out the door to go to New York, make du'a for moi Insha-Allaah. I will speak to you when I get back, Insha-Allaah..
~TrueKnowledge
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SubHan-Allaah...I loved that thread on MC. You know, I went and found the thread on MC, brought back some memories. I miss yassi even though we didnt speak much.
I saw your post on MC about Rosebude Tear and others trying to be like us...lol SubHan-Allaah, when I didnt think you were serious when u wrote about it on my chatterbox. They actually closed that thread now. lol.. Khair AlHumdu-Lillaah.
I am about to head out the door to go to New York, make du'a for moi Insha-Allaah. I will speak to you when I get back, Insha-Allaah..
~TrueKnowledge
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