.:Wednesday, October 27, 2004:.
Forgiving..
am listening to Surat Yusif now, and subhanAllah the ayah "qala laa tathreeba 'alaikum al yowm yaghfirAllahu laakum.." its so deep.. When you look at all that they did to him, and then for him to forgive them so easily. Allahu Akbar.
If there is one good quality I have, it would be my ability to forgive others. Alhamdulilah alhamdulilah this is something that I am able to do, forgive and forget. No matter how hard I try to hold things against people I can't. If the person means allot to me, I wont hold anything against them to start with, but if it does happen and I do usually by the next day or so I have forgetten what it was that I was mad at.
A few years ago, me and the imams daughter whos a couple months older than me, used to be the best of friends. I thought nothing could break it ever. We would tell each other everything, trust each other with everything, and do everything together. Then this girl came and did all she could to break up our friendship, and it worked. For a long time me and my friend wouldnt even talk except salaams. If there was ever anyone that I hated it would be that girl that broke up our friendship, its never been the same since. But even her I forgave after a while. We were taking her and her family to the airport couse they were leaving to over seas, and when we got there I turned to her, still hurt from what she had done, and told her "listen, I forgive you, you forgive me. I dont want to have to deal with this on yowm al qiyamah". and that was that.
I just hope that inshaAllah I can keep this up. Couse latley its been getting harder, at least to forget.
chotu-meyeh
@ 10/27/2004 05:44:00 PM
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