.:Friday, January 07, 2005:.

Looks or personality?

This seems to be some big discussion going around and I've stayed out of it lol, but yesterday someone pmed me and starts debating with me on the issue which was fun.

They started off by saying "ok sis I have a questions, personality or appearance" and I said "personality" and they go "personality???" "I'm talking about when looking for a potential spouse" and I said "ya I know, personality" and it went from there. They trying to prove to me that deep down looks are more important for me and me saying that it was personality lol. Their proof was they asked me "so say Abdullah and Mansur both ask for your hand, both are same level in deen and all but Abdullah has better looks who would u pick" and I said "Abdullah" so they seem to think they caught me or whatever lol. I had to go get dinner ready so I told them I'll finish the argument tomorrow. And I know I can win it because of something they said before lol.

ya'ani to be honest of course looks are important but they aren’t the most important for me. Someones personality and adherence to the deen is more important, and as long as they look good I'm fine with it. Some people that I know personally though wouldn’t even consider someone that doesn’t have like the best looks, so people are different. The funny thing is from all people I'd think this one person knows my opinion enough to at least not argue lol couse they aint changing it…

chotu-meyeh @ 1/07/2005 01:21:00 PM #|

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