I was talking with someone a little while ago and I realized something.. it wasnt the first time for me to realize it, or to think of it, but I think for the first time its stuck to me..

 Alot of times we take things for face value, we might feel hurt by someone or angry with them without really knowing their reasons.. we just take things for how they seem to us "oh well they did such and such so it has to mean THIS" without thinking of the other possibilites..

Its sad to see that this is how so many of us act nowadays.. whatever happened to giving your muslim brother/sister 70 excuses.. And I am the first to admit to it.. I know I do it alot.. and I know that is where alot of my doubts about people come from.. I never think up another reason for them its always what first comes to mind.. and being human, its usually not the good, its the bad..

so yea, I'm sorry if I've ever done this to you, whether you know it or not... couse I'm almost sure I've done it to everyone that I know that reads this blog (not including the wierdos from oman, japan and the such). And inshaAllah if I'm talking to you and I start doing this to someone else, remind me so I stop.. <--- mostly to UmmQ, since shes the one that listens to my rants about people..

Anyways, this is just a reminder mainly to myself; its best to think twice about things, couse its not always what you think..

Now I should head back to the other house and see whats taking my mom so long..