Yesterday my aunt called from misr.. my aunts usually never call couse its expensive to call from there, usually its my mom that calls them. Anyways, my mom is the second oldest, and the oldest girl.. Since my grandma passed away a little over a year ago my three aunts have felt lonly especially since my mom and khalu are here.. so anyways.. my aunt pretty much was begging my mom to come back.. and said that they needed her.. my dad was the one that answered the phone and she even asked him, and then he gave me the phone and she asked me and told me make istikhara and then talked to my mom.. This started a day long debate and talk about the issue.
It ended in something like this
Dad:
"Khalaas inshaAllah. Lets just make istikhaar and see what happens. How about I send you three over there around september, since Adam will be done with summer term and can take you.. I'll finish up things here and then catch up.. from there we can decide what we want to do.. go to uae, saudia, stay.. whatever it is."
My mom didnt really say anything at the time.. shes not sure about anything.. she'd always not wanted to go back to misr for a few reasons, but my khala's call really got her thinking. I'm not sure myself, its ya'ani a shock kinda. I've heard that misr is getting better though.. so Allahu 'aalam.
Later at night, around isha time, me and my mom were talking and another intresting conversation came up :/. We were talking about the whole thing and some how marriage came up... and I was like "I dont exactly want to marry someone from back home.." and she was like "na'aam I understand, but that would mean you'd need to get married soon" and I was quiet.. I mean what am I going to say to that? She then asked me if I wanted her to get something going with a certain brother.. lol my dad swore I'd never marry him btw.. and I was quiet and at the end said told her no not now at least..
Alhamdulilah 'ala kulli haal. At least if I go then I'll be able to chill with stuckoo for 9 months :D. Couse most likely my dad wont be there for a long time, andd after the first week of visiting family etc I'd be free to do what I want.. go out when I want, and pretty much do what I want.. Allahu 'aalam. May Allah swt guide us to what is khair..
OH MY ALLAAH!!! OH MY LORD!!! OH MY GOD!!!
I do not come online for ONE day and your family is deciding to move to Egypt or/and marry you off?!?!?!
My head is spinning in circles and I think I'm about to have a stroke.
You leaving me? *sniff* <--that sniff was real btw.
Allaahu 'Alaam.
Wa'Alaykum As-Salaam Wa Rahmatullaah
LOL!!! I think you're overreacting a litttttle bit to much.
My moms been wanting to marry me off for ageeeeeessssss buttt as you know, you cant exactly get married if no one wanna marry you :P.
As far as moving goes, man you know they been talking about it for a while now. And its not final.. yes my dads already brought boxes, yes hes as serious as can be about it, but its not final. And hey, I thought we(me and you) were both gonna move to UAE and go to uni together there??? I mean thats still a posability..
'ala kullin. If I get married or move away how does that take me away from you? No matter what habeebti, even if for a while we loose contact, you'll always been in my heart.
I love you man, and love how you dramatize things :P
was salaamu 'alaikum..
lol, I know we both have spoken about the possibility of us getting married and/or moving overseas but it didnt REALLY hit me until now. I mean we're not gonna move there together which means we may not be able to speak to each other a while (or a long time).
I dont know if I'll be moving to the UAE soon even though my father is ready to pack up and leave right now as well. We have just so much going on here, we cant just get up and leave but its a plan for the next couple years Insha-Allaah.
Man, lol I'm not a drama-queen either.
Wa'Alaykum As-Salaam Wa Rahmatullaahi Wa Barakaatuh.
na'aam.. I know what you mean. In a way it was a shock, couse even though my parents are always talking about it.. I mean I dont know.. I've been thinking of nothing but it since.
As far as not talking, I dont think so. If I were to go there I'd have TOTAL freedom.. at least untill my dad comes. Ya'ani, my mom would let me pretty much "do as I please" which would be hanging in a net cafe all day :P. But seriously, I'd inshaAllah have a computer there.. and I'd most definatly keep in touch.
In reality, I think I could stand MAYBE up to a year there.. but after that I'd be wanting to come back. Its not easy leaving all you know, and all you are used to behind.. If it ever came to a point that I wanted to come back really bad I think one of two things would happen.. Either my mom would send me to my uncles.. or she'd tell him to find me someone to marry.. Allahu 'aalam...
As far as UAE goes, its understandable with all you have going on now that it wont be for a while. And it seems the same for me. So who knows, we might end up there together.. Who knows what is our qaadar sakinah, the last thing I would have thought would be us moving to misr..
Ya'know, I kinda talked to you about this the other day, but I was thinking about it more. If nothing happens with regards to marriage before we leave (if we leave) I really dont think I'd be getting married soon. Not that I think anything is going to happen before either.. but Allahu 'aalam. If that is the case, I'm probably going to do what you planning on doing.. just study.. and study.. and study.. Thats why it would have been so cool to be in the same city (dubai/abu dhabi) so we could do it together :(
And yes you are a drama Queen. not to the degree of THE master of drama.. but never the less you are one :P.
lol man this comment is longer than the original post..
