.:Wednesday, August 24, 2005:.
counsling session :P
I had a longggg talk with mom this morning. like two
hour long talk.. it was nice though. She did most of
the talking :P. I just sat and listened while getting
lectured. I dont mind my moms lectures most of the
time..and this was one of them. There were two main
points to this lectures; 1. me being lazy and needing
to get more productive, and 2. my responsibilities
towards my sister.
At the end of this "discussion" we reached certain
points, wich was good alhamdulilah. From them is that
I now have a bedtime :P. At least when school starts
up.. midnight is max unless I have a valid reason to
be awake.. maann I havnt had a bed time since I was
like 7. I think this was the only point I argued with
her.. it ended with a "we'll see what happens when the
time comes"..
As far as the first point of discussion, she mainly
told me how I needed to work harder.. that you're only
youn once.. if you dont use this time wisely now you
will regret it later. that one of the five things you
will be asked on yowmul Qiyaamah, is your youth and
what you spent it in.. and your time and what you did
with it.. and so on. At the end we came out with
certain goals and things that inshaAllah I will work
towards in the next few months..
The second point was a bit more stressing fore me
since she put so much responsibilty on me. For
starters, my sis is starting an online schooling
program (www.connectionsacademy.com) and my mom wants
me to supervise her in it... then she went on to say
how my sister follows me in everything I do and that
I'm probably the only person she really listens to
anymore.. and because of that i needed to work on
helping her grow as a person...
In a way I've felt that responsibilty for a while now.
She will listen to me better than both of my parents
and is around me way to much.. she also talks to me
alot.. so I've been trying to work with her.. but I
think I started off wrong.. I'd get upset fast and get
harsh on her and that usually doesnt help much.. There
is a way to deal with every situation and I think I'm
starting to gain experiance as to how to react in
diffrent ones.. or maybe I'm just reading to much in
behavioral psychology :P.
I've been trying to download a certain version of
netscape for the past half hour, and I think I finally
got it.. but i have to restart.. so I'll upate later inshaAllah.
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@ 8/24/2005 06:32:00 PM
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