So yesterday I'm talking to someone and they asked me "do you think you're ready to get married?" The questoin sorta caught me off guard and my answer of "I dont know.." sounded amusing to them. But that was the truth.. with all of the "you need to get married" talk this question took me by surprise.

I thought about it a little more.. and this is what I've come to..

I'm ready for the physical demands of a marriage.. all of them inshaAllah.. but I think I still lack in the mental demands (if that makes sense :S). I dont think I'm 100% mature enough yet.. and I think I could do stupid things that I could regret later, wallahu 'aalam.  then again, I dont think you will ever totally be ready.. so I wouldnt turn someone down couse "I'm not ready".. bleh.. I dunnu..